♥Tuesday, August 09, 2005♥
Friends called up,demanding to know whats wrong with me.Staying at home for a holiday eve.I decided to go for a coffee.Not into the mood of clubbing.Ben came over to fetch me to 'Can Cafe.'Were We meet up with Shi Hua.Speaking about 'Can Cafe.'I see it grew from just a small shop house to now:3 shop houses together side by side...they even opened the second floor !!!Thats how crowded the place was.Business should be good I supposed.The deco of 'Can cafe.'
They had changed all their cute waitress to China girls!Although their english was poor.But they were very polite.Not bad service.But...the food and drinks...*Thumps down.*Business was good...they hurried to deliver orders.They neglected their strandards,they once had.They did add in a few new creations.But the way they mixed the drinks...It's either too much of these or too much of that...Shi hua ordered ...A coffee drink with rum and baileys.*puked*Trust me.You be drunk after drinking the 'coffee'.There's no taste of coffee at all!They had putted in,too much rum.
We ordered top shell also,The top shell that they gave us,from directly from the can!!!They were not cut up.But still...credits were given for their cozy deco.You can probably find some antiques in there.The owner had a whole collection of them.
"Alamak!!! Too dark la..."
Me and cannot see...Ben.
Went Mustafa shopping Centre.As it was open 24 hours.That was Shi hua's first time being there.And she was in the end...the one,spending the most!It about 3 am, when we finally ended our shopping.Sent Shi hua home,as she still have to wake up early the next morning.Ben then brought me to Seletar reservior.We sat down on the rocks...And chatted.
Got to learn some things from him.Somethings that had been bothering me...and finally the knot was untangled.He explained to me...what I had done wrong in my past relationships.He talked me out.He letted me realised some stuffs ,I wouldn't believe into.
This was just one of the parts, he said:
"For me,being together meant two person being happy with each other accompany.There's no reason why holding on if, you were the only one being happy here.
Doing some stuffs that will satisfy your own happiness and making the the other party suffer for you,wasn't love at all.
Loving a person ,you would hoped the person to be happy.
Even if it meant,not being with him.
Loving a person meant loving his everything.If you want him to change,then the person won't be him anymore. Accepting the person as he is.
Loving him...
Loving everything about him."
*Enough said*
ends at 2:21 PM
with love ♥
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