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♥Sunday, May 22, 2005♥

Went Coffee session with Aaron,Wendy and Sam.
My younger brother did join us later.
We chatted about our younger days(make me feel so old...)
The ah lians and the ah bengs seasons...*laughing*

Then we went over to ktv.
To comfort ,Wendy's brother ex girlfriend.
Let me tell you the story...

They had been together for 4 years now.
The whole family like this girl and accepted her as part of their family.
Sadly,he found someone else,
Wanted a break up, yet do not have the courage to face the girl and the family.
He chose to run away.
But he got someone to pass the message to her,that he wanted a break up.
And from that day on,
He didn't go home...didn't even dare to pick up the calls.
The girl packed her stuffs from his home,tear up their photos they had.
Cried and eventually got sick.
Till now,neither did he call back nor appear.
Everyone in the family is blaming him for what he had done.
Blaming him for not coming out to face the truth...Blaming him for breaking her heart.
It's a shock to us ,as his brother has always been picture as the ideal boyfriend .
Never had we thought it would involve a third party.

Wendy is furious with her brother.
Ended up crying ...
I can totally understand how that girl had felt.
And i know even as an other sider,i would also blame Wendy's brother for being such an unfaithful jerk.

But...Let's put ourselves standing in another point of view.
If Wendy's brother had hold on to the relationship just for the sake of his family,
It would had been worst for the girl.
He himself had fear...
Thats why he chose to run away.He was too afraid of what his family might say,
too afraid of what that girl might had felt.
He was guilty yet ,
He didn't dare to face the truth.
He too is under certain kind of pressure.
If he no longer love the girl,holding on will only become a burden.
I am not saying that he wouldn't regret one day.
But...

'When a man wants to leave...no matter what,one of these days ,he will'

I don't agree that he should run away...cause the least ,He could do was to stay on and face this breakup.

But i do hope for Wendy to understand her brother's fears.

I am not taking sides...

But just wanted both sides to find a solution.

Lets hope the girl will get this over with time.

ends at 10:54 AM

with love ♥